2011年10月29日 星期六

1011。雜記



這陣子 正值多事之秋
讓人無奈又無力的事情一波接一波

還好 憑著無敵的阿Q精神
相信[希望在明天]的信念
總算撐過來了~







最麻煩的事情
莫過於遭遇無妄之災

是的 這隻跌斷的右手是兔子的
斷了手腕骨 動了手術

整個星期忙於往醫院奔波
加上自己這2個多月來不停傷風感冒
真的是心力交瘁!

而兔子這位大爺斷了右手
更有大把藉口使喚我
吃飯,洗澡,穿衣...樣樣服侍周到
有時真的讓我想抓狂!

唉~ 也只好自我安慰
這是個機會表現好老婆的一面







應兔子要求 把頭髮留長了
但 我是個扁頭人
留長髮一定要燙卷
才不至於看起來像大嬸
所以 為了這把頭髮
還真是灑了不少血汗錢!








近日 有位與我頗有交情的client離婚了
非常難過 也很震撼

他倆在我心目中是如此恩愛和匹配
且 經常在面子書上看到倆人的甜蜜對話
剛得知消息時 還以為只是個玩笑

聽了當事人一字一句述說著婚變的經過
很心疼! 強忍住淚水 不知該說些甚麼
只能給她緊緊的擁抱...

心寒!!! 到底是甚麼原因
可以讓一個如此深愛過妳的人叫妳出街給車撞死?!!
還有那些惡言 讓我久久無法消化


一直以來 自己心裡都有個譜
深知世上沒什麼是promising的
但 無跡可尋的衝擊 還是被嚇到了

唯有不斷提醒自己:
沒有人比自己更值得我去愛!


真的 做人要有那點點的自私
才不至於失去自己!






兔子問我: 為什麼同一張照片要放那麼多?
我說:看清楚吖 每張表情都不同的!

我想 這就是愛
因為太愛 而不想錯過任何一刻
每個細節都顯可貴。


我知道 這位性格固執難搞的小朋友
也是同樣地愛著我 無論開心與否
他都會默默為我守候 : )






2011年10月28日 星期五

A letter to GOD

偶然讀到的一小段
很傷感 也很感動
相信家裡也有毛小孩的你會特別感觸...




Our 14 year old dog, Abbey, died last month.

The day after she died, my 4 year old daughter Meredith was crying and talking about how much she missed Abbey. She asked if we could write a letter to God so that when Abbey got to heaven, God would recognize her. I told her that I thought we could so she dedictated these words:



Dear God,

Will you please take care of my dog?
She died yesterday and is with you in heaven. I miss her very much.
I am happy that you let me have her as my dog even though she got sick.
I hope you will play with her. She likes to play with balls and to swim.
I am sending a picture of her so when you see her You will know that she is my dog. I really miss her.

Love, Meredith



We put the letter in an envelope with a picture of Abbey and Meredith and addressed it to God/Heaven. We put our return address on it. Then Meredith pasted several stamps on the front of the envelope because she said it would take lots of stamps to get the letter all the way to heaven. That afternoon she dropped it into the letter box at the post office.

A few days later, she asked if God had gotten the letter yet. I told her that I thought He had.

Yesterday, there was a package wrapped in gold paper on our front porch addressed, ‘To Meredith’ in an unfamiliar hand. Meredith opened it.
Inside was a book by Mr. Rogers called, ‘When a Pet Dies.’

Taped to the inside front cover was the letter we had written to God in its opened envelope. On the opposite page was the picture of Abbey & Meredith and this note:


Dear Meredith,

Abbey arrived safely in heaven. Having the picture was a big help.
I recognized Abbey right away. Abbey isn’t sick anymore. Her spirit is here with me just like it stays in your heart. Abbey loved being your dog. Since we don’t need our bodies in heaven, I don’t have any pockets to keep your picture in, so I am sending it back to you in this little book for you to keep and have something to remember Abbey by.

Thank you for the beautiful letter and thank your mother for helping
you write it and sending it to me. What a wonderful mother you have. I picked her especially for you. I send my blessings every day and remember that I love you very much.

By the way, I’m easy to find, I am wherever there is love.

Love, God

2011年10月13日 星期四

大男孩的玩具




於我 愛不必每天掛在嘴邊。而是付諸於行動。
陪他,支持他所好。縱使我甚麼都不懂。






沈默寡言的男人也有滔滔不絕的時候。
因 他知道妳願意聆聽。